How to Treat People

While I was stumbling this evening (If you don't stumble, you should), I came across this. I thought it was very insightful and worth sharing. Whether or not the stories are true, I couldn't tell you, but I think there's something in each one of them we can all learn from.

Five Lessons About How To Treat People
-- Author Unknown

1. First Important Lesson - "Know The Cleaning Lady"

During my second month of college, our professor gave us a pop quiz. I was a conscientious student and had breezed through the questions, until I read the last one: "What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?"

Surely this was some kind of joke. I had seen the cleaning woman several times. She was tall, dark-haired and in her 50s, but how would I know her name? I handed in my paper, leaving the last question blank. Just before class ended, one student asked if the last question would count toward our quiz grade.

"Absolutely," said the professor. "In your careers, you will meet many people. All are significant. They deserve your attention and care, even if all you do is smile and say "hello."

I've never forgotten that lesson. I also learned her name was Dorothy.

2. Second Important Lesson - "Pickup In The Rain"

One night, at 11:30 p.m., an older African American woman was standing on the side of an Alabama highway trying to endure a lashing rainstorm. Her car had broken down and she desperately needed a ride. Soaking wet, she decided to flag down the next car.

A young white man stopped to help her, generally unheard of in those conflict-filled 1960s. The man took her to safety, helped her get assistance and put her into a taxicab.

She seemed to be in a big hurry, but wrote down his address and thanked him. Seven days went by and a knock came on the man's door. To his surprise, a giant console color TV was delivered to his home.

A special note was attached. It read: "Thank you so much for assisting me on the highway the other night. The rain drenched not only my clothes, but also my spirits. Then you came along. Because of you, I was able to make it to my dying husband's bedside just before he passed away. God bless you for helping me and unselfishly serving others."

Sincerely, Mrs. Nat King Cole.

3. Third Important Lesson - "Remember Those Who Serve"

In the days when an ice cream sundae cost much less, a 10 year-old boy entered a hotel coffee shop and sat at a table. A waitress put a glass of water in front of him. "How much is an ice cream sundae?" he asked. "50¢," replied the waitress.

The little boy pulled his hand out of his pocket and studied the coins in it.

"Well, how much is a plain dish of ice cream?" he inquired. By now more people were waiting for a table and the waitress was growing impatient. "35¢!" she brusquely replied.

The little boy again counted his coins. "I'll have the plain ice cream," he said. The waitress brought the ice cream, put the bill on the table and walked away. The boy finished the ice cream, paid the cashier and left.

When the waitress came back, she began to cry as she wiped down the table. There, placed neatly beside the empty dish, were two nickels and five pennies. You see, he couldn't have the sundae, because he had to have enough left to leave her a tip.

4. Fourth Important Lesson - "The Obstacles In Our Path"

In ancient times, a King had a boulder placed on a roadway. Then he hid himself and watched to see if anyone would remove the huge rock. Some of the king's wealthiest merchants and courtiers came by and simply walked around it. Many loudly blamed the King for not keeping the roads clear, but none did anything about getting the stone out of the way.

Then a peasant came along carrying a load of vegetables. Upon approaching the boulder, the peasant laid down his burden and tried to move the stone to the side of the road. After much pushing and straining, he finally succeeded. After the peasant picked up his load of vegetables, he noticed a purse lying in the road where the boulder had been. The purse contained many gold coins and a note from the King indicating that the gold was for the person who removed the boulder from the roadway. The peasant learned what many of us never understand - "Every obstacle presents an opportunity to improve our condition."

5. Fifth Important Lesson - "Giving When It Counts"

Many years ago, when I worked as a volunteer at a hospital, I got to know a little girl named Liz who was suffering from a rare and serious disease. Her only chance of recovery appeared to be a blood transfusion from her 5-year-old brother, who had miraculously survived the same disease and had developed the antibodies needed to combat the illness. The doctor explained the situation to her little brother, and asked the little boy if he would be willing to give his blood to his sister. I saw him hesitate for only a moment before taking a deep breath and saying, "Yes, I'll do it if it will save her."

As the transfusion progressed, he lay in bed next to his sister and smiled, as we all did, seeing the color returning to her cheeks. Then his face grew pale and his smile faded. He looked up at the doctor and asked with a trembling voice, "Will I start to die right away?".

Being young, the little boy had misunderstood the doctor; he thought he was going to have to give his sister all of his blood in order to save her.

I want to work to be a better person. I think this was definitely a point in the right direction.

Also, a lot of people asked where I got the app on facebook to see my past statuses, I hate to tell you but I honestly have no idea. One day, my old statuses just started showing up on the right hand side. They don't show up all the time, usually when looking at my own profile or typing in a new status. I've just recently noticed they are now showing up on other people's profiles as well, showing their old statuses. I know that's not any help to any of you who asked but it's all I've got :-\

Hope everyone fared well through Irene and isn't experiencing too much damage!


  1. Thank you so much for sharing this :)

  2. That last story brought tears to my eyes. That is the perfect example of love and selflessness!

    As for the FB status thing, I think it's just another change that they're doing. I've seen it for awhile. :-)

  3. These were great, thanks for sharing!

  4. Thanks for sharing those! It's always good to put life in perspective and those made me cry this morning at work, but also reminded me to work at being a better person! =)

  5. Such a great really does make you want to be a better person.


  6. Awwwwwwww! Made my day! Mary.

  7. I've heard all these stories before, but that last one always makes me cry!

  8. Great thoughts to always keep in mind. Thank you so much for sharing this, and good luck, always.

  9. Funny that you mentioned Stumble, because tonight it brought me to your story and your blog. I am in awe of your strength and courage, and will never forget your husband's service and sacrifice.

  10. I want to work on being a better person too. It's hard sometimes, but I am working on it.

    I'm also working on reating myself better. Something I've neglected for far too long. Since having Ariel, I've back-burnered myself so much. Total Hillary make-over coming up! Inside and out.

    I see the status of years past when I click on a status. Like if I comment on your status, then someone else comments, if i go to that notification, it pulls up your past status updates. (Caught my friend being a big fatty liar doing that too! haha!) Same for my own status updates... if someone comments, it shows on my side bar. :)

  11. Hey gurl I just wanted to inform you that today I stumbled on something that has one of your pictures in it. I don't know if you know it or not but just to be safe I thought I should mention it. This is the url to the poster:

  12. Beautiful! And thank you for sharing, I hope you don't mind, I borrowed that for my blog :)


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